Is The Bespoke Suit Mens Program Right For Me?

The Bespoke Suit FAQ Page.

We stand behind the compelling content and immense value of The Bespoke Suit program and the tangible results you get when you do the work, and 100% commit to the program. If for any reason, you’re not satisfied with your results, simply provide your reasoning along with your completed coursework within 90 days of the program end date for a full refund.

We understand that this program is not for everyone, so to ensure you’re making the best possible investment for you and your individual goals; we suggest reading through the FAQ’s to get crystal clear on whether or not The Bespoke Suit program is right for you.

What is The Bespoke Suit program?

The Bespoke Suit is a 6-month hybrid style and relationship improvement program for men that takes place via Zoom where the Stylist and the Client meet in a private 1:1 coaching setting as the Client works through the program material. There are in-person portions of the program available to clients based on location and availability.

Where does The Bespoke Suit program take place?

The Bespoke Suit is an online program that takes place via Zoom from the privacy of your own home. This is intentional as men value privacy and complete client confidentiality. The program would not be as effective for doing deeply personal, transformational work in a group setting or live event. The 1:1 coaching model works best with ongoing support and interactive exercises that clients do on their own time.

What will you learn in The Bespoke Suit program?

The Bespoke Suit 6-month mens hybrid program is highly individualized for each client in order to meet their individual relationship and style goals. Each month, a new module will be covered that builds on the one before it. Here’s what you’ll learn:

  1. Understand and evaluate your relationships, so you have clarity and know what the relationship is, what it’s not, and how to proceed.
  2. Proper fit and wardrobe maintenance, so you know how clothes should fit your body and how to arrange, add to, and retire your wardrobe.
  3. What long term looks like, so you don’t get together and then go, now what? Because you know how to practically run a relationship, and what happens next.
  4. Design your ideal relationship blueprint, so you have information and knowledge about when to have that conversation about commitment, and a clear plan to structure your relationship at the 3, 6, 9, and 12 month mark.
  5. Identify your wardrobe gaps and alleviate dressing pains, so you don’t have the worst time finding things like mens dress shoes, and you know how to put outfits together that are congruent with who you really are, so you can attract the right person.
  6. Develop and improve your general look, so you’re not buying a bunch of shit and hoping it works out, wearing a lot of loose fitting clothes, or buying a whole bunch of dress pants and shirts that’s not realistic to your lifestyle.

When does the next enrollment begin for The Bespoke Suit program?

Enrollment opens on September 1, 2021 for the next round of the The Bespoke Suit mens program, and registration closes on September 15, 2021. The Bespoke Suit mens program officially begins on October 5, 2021. Onboarding and welcome packets will be sent to individual clients two weeks prior to the program start date. All clients must be paid in full no later than October 1, 2021 before the program begins. Payment plans will be scheduled on the first of each month for the duration of the program.

Will The Bespoke Suit program work for me if I don’t live in the US?

Yes it will! Sexuality Stylist values it’s global audience of readers and clients from all over the world including the United Kingdom, India, Australia, Nigeria, Canada, Philippines, among others. When a new client joins The Bespoke Suit program; they get a link to schedule their monthly sessions via Zoom, according to their time zone and availability.

Do you accept scholarships for The Bespoke Suit program?

Yes, we do! All scholarship applications must be submitted no later than September 15, 2021 to join The Bespoke Suit Fall 2021 program. Please email: info@sexualitystylist.com to request an application and address additional questions.

What kind of tangible results can I expect from The Bespoke Suit program?

When I asked a former client to share 3 tangible ways his life has changed after completing The Bespoke Suit program, he said:

“First of all, I’ve met all of my goals. I’ve learned how to shop, how to put outfits together so that I not only look/feel good, but express what I want. I’ve learned how to layer an outfit to express different things. Sexuality Stylist showed me how I can take one outfit and wear it in a multitude of different ways. I’m feeling much better. In the process I’ve found that I was holding on to many hold style beliefs/patterns from childhood. I enjoy getting dressed, knowing that whatever I wear, I will look and feel much better than before. I’ve found naturally that I am adopting new styles that I didn’t feel comfortable with at the beginning of the process, that I love.

Result 1: I’ve met my goal of being able to shop confidently for clothes. I no longer will buy an item that is just “Good enough.” I’ve expanded my color/design pallet, and have learned how to broaden style possibilities with just a single piece in order to express a variety of different feelings.

Result 2: What I’ve been wearing has changed. I even wear my old clothes better, in a way that feels natural and beneficial. My newer clothing has received a few compliments in just the last couple of days since purchase and it opened up conversations from a server who wanted to know more about me.

Result 3: I know how to layer an outfit to tell a story of varying depths of character. I’ve found how I would hide behind certain outfits to avoid emotions, and how what I wore was intended to project feelings that I felt were lacking in myself. I’ve stretched my comfort zone, style, color pallet, and have become a more aware person through this process.

I have improved all less developed areas of my life. I have a practical understanding of dating, relationships, the masculine/feminine dynamic, how to communicate, and how to structure your life. I am building a life and a way of being that a high caliber woman would actually want to be part of.”

The practical guidance was a many game changer for me. I now have more confidence to approach the situations with. Before working with Sexuality Stylist, I had less clarity on how to improve myself particular as a man, and I had little idea of how to make a relationship work at a practical level.”

What if I’m not in a relationship at the moment; will the program still work for me?

Yes! Most clients are either recently single men (after divorce) who got lazy when they were married and want to revamp their look and love life, or men who have been super single for years and want to make a change in their career and how they do relationships. And then there’s always nagging wives and girlfriends.

I’m successful in my career and have my shit together. I just haven’t met the right person. Why do I need this program?

The Bespoke Suit program isn’t the program that you do when you’re at the end of your rope, and totally fed up with being single and not having that long-term relationship you desire. It’s the program you invest in before you get there. This isn’t a matchmaking program, and you won’t be guaranteed a number of dates or that you’ll meet the woman of your dreams by the end of the program.

You will, however, have the tools and tactics to make necessary changes to your love life and improve your look and learn how to structure your relationship at the 3,6,9, and 12-month mark. You will learn how to communicate and practically run a relationship and you will gain the information and knowledge you need so you know what long-term looks like, so you not only attract your dream woman, but also keep her.

You can keep wasting precious time wondering where to meet someone, and spending thousands of dollars on dinner dates in search of the right person, but if you don’t have an ideal relationship blueprint, and a clear path on how to actually take your commitment past the honeymoon phase, then you will become totally fed up and that’s when your standards drop and desperation takes over.

Meanwhile, you can be transforming the way you’ve done relationships and invest in your own growth to become the man that can not only attract, but keep the woman of your dreams. The Bespoke Suit will give you all the knowledge and information you need to look good and feel good in clothes that fit your body, and give you practical knowledge of how to run your relationship so you don’t lack clarity and direction. Women can feel that. It’s time to understand how to take your relationship to the next level.

Why should I pay $1500 for a style and relationship program, then spend more money on actual clothes during the program, when I can just go out and buy new clothes if I’m unhappy with my look and put that $1500 toward my wardrobe?

Great question! You’ll spend less money in the long run when you invest in the correct clothes that fit your body, are realistic for your lifestyle, match your true personal style (not just something you thought looked cool on that other guy) because you have a wardrobe full of pieces that are made to last. It’s like buying 10 basic t-shirts from Old Navy for $49.99 and having to replace them every 6 months. Or, worse: you go out and spend a couple grand on things you’re never going to actually wear. Why wouldn’t you invest in high-quality clothing that saves you time and money and arrange your clothes to get the classic V-shape that all men want? Plus, you’ll have a menswear stylist finding product solutions for your wardrobe frustrations, and curating your look so you feel good going out into the world and doing what you do best.

There’s a lot of mens relationship coaches and menswear stylists on the market. For instance, I could just go to Nordstrom and work with a personal stylist there. What makes The Bespoke Suit different and worth my investment?

This is your chance to have a certified menswear stylist with a specialized background in spiritual sexuality and relationship coaching, and a New York State certified holistic health coaching certification who is not only trained in menswear and personal styling, but also knows that style and relationships are not compartmentalized and my methods are holistic and practical and get real results.

I hold you accountable to your style and relationship goals and champion your growth. You get to improve your romantic relationships and attract high caliber women because you’ve got a clear path to do things differently so you get better results in your love life. Most clients don’t know where their blind spot is, and what they’re doing wrong in relationships, and I give them the tools and tactics for having successful, long-term relationships with their dream woman. I show you how to tailor your wardrobe to fit your body and your overall lifestyle, and get respect in the boardroom and in the bedroom.

Most men think they don’t need a stylist or a relationship coach to meet someone, and that’s true. You’re fully capable of meeting great woman all on your own. This program isn’t here to teach you how to be a man. You’ve already got that on lock. This program isn’t for people who half-ass online programs, and don’t put in the work.

The Bespoke Suit program is an emotional journey and I’m here to fully support you every step of the way. Most men lack a supportive space to have emotional conversations and talk about sexual health, and romantic relationships; and they certainly don’t bring their concerns to the office or their guy friends. They’re more likely to tell their barber or a pastor how they feel than their own girlfriend. This program will show you how to communicate with your core confidence intact.

The Bespoke Suit is highly personalized to each client so they have a clear, practical path to meet their style and relationship goals. This is for men who might feel fashion inept, but also recognize the power of clothes and the respect that comes with looking and feeling good. This is for men who appreciate the traditional, classic look of mens fashion, and are tired of wearing the same, loose fitting clothes that aren’t attractive and don’t exactly say I want to move up in the world.

The Bespoke Suit is for you if you want to do things differently than you have in the past and change your whole relationship algorithm. Most men think if they’re successful in their career and have money set aside for a house, and check off all the right boxes that’ll get him a sophisticated woman. But they don’t realize that who they are privately, and how they show up in their intimate relationships is who they are. Long gone are the days where a man can uphold a public image, lack integrity privately, and still be respected in the world. The question is are you going to be a part of the change in the world or a part of the past.